I can’t remember when was the last time I was excluded from a “guy’s night out” umm…. hmm… I think I’ve never been excluded from one before, or at least been told directly that I’m going to be excluded from one.
It’s scary that this is my first time experiencing a “guy’s night out” thing and I don’t know how to feel about it. I feel angry, sad, suspicious, outcasted etc. etc.
The reason why I always loved to tag along with a bunch of guys is, I feel so much more comfortable hanging out with guys than with the girls.
“they said it would be awkward if you came along”
Seriously? I would feel more awkward if it’s with a bunch of girls!
Mind you, this is a gamer guys night out. A few of them haven’t met each other before. So it’s more awkward if a new girl joins them than a new guy joins them.
Just so it’s not double standards, I don’t believe in “girl’s night out” as well. Possibly because I don’t really enjoy them, with the exception of 1 bunch of girls I’ve been hanging out with for the past 10 years.
Girls in general are bitchy, conniving, obnoxious when they gather. Many things they do or say comes with hidden meaning or agenda. When boys gather, they just act stupid and lame. That’s my stereotype, and I definitely prefer the latter.
With a bunch of girls, they don’t understand when I tell them “I need to go back by 10pm because I have an online match”. I can’t boast to them my 1337 skills or levels. We can’t share our experiences of the latest games and gadgets. With a bunch of boys, we can talk about everything and look stupid, and it’s okay.
Guys seem to have a perception that girls can’t take racist, sexist, lame jokes. Or that us girls are easily offended by the slightest insult, or that we’re “party poopers”. Well, I can’t speak for other girls, but I’m definitely not one.
Looks like this Saturday I’m staying home, alone, like a man, playing computer games and watching anime. Otaku life FTW.
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Pingback by Tweets that mention A Gamer Girl’s View on Guys Night Out | deadpris -- Topsy.com — August 13, 2010 @ 3:28 pm
-_-” you super duper… gender discriminate. Whose side are you on?!
Comment by Princessa — August 13, 2010 @ 7:18 pm
I’m on the dark side :O
Comment by Priss — August 13, 2010 @ 8:14 pm
anyway, sab you don’t agree with me that it’s mostly more interesting to hang out with a bunch of guys than with a bunch of girls? O_O
Comment by Priss — August 13, 2010 @ 8:15 pm
I think whether guys or girls, as long as they are friends that you can get along with, it’s more interesting than hanging out with a bunch of strangers.
So no, I don’t agree with you.
Comment by Princessa — August 15, 2010 @ 11:14 pm
haha.. 一次生两次熟 meet once is strangers… meet a few more times then become friends lor
Comment by Priss — August 16, 2010 @ 1:05 pm