on Feb 10th, 2008Lame excuses people tell when they are not in love anymore.
I’m motivated to write this entry by a few blog posts I’ve came across on ping.sg these two days. I suppose Valentines Day is nearing and Love is in the air.
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She’s REALLLY small sized because she was a premature baby. She’s lactose intolerant too. And cuz of that, you don’t want to continue building this relationship with her cuz you don’t want your future children to turn out like that.
The guy OBVIOUSLY is not interested in the girl. Whether is it truly because of her ‘genetic defects’ and he’s a paranoid freak, or because the guy could not think of a better excuse than that… IT DOES NOT MATTER. The best part is…. I am lactose intolerant and so are 90% of Asians. An estimate of 70% of the adults in the world are lactose intolerant!!!!! I’m not pulling these numbers out of a hat, go read the wikipedia entry on lactose tolerant.
Incase anyone reading this suspects that you’re lactose intolerant. Here’s a simple way to check if you are lactose intolerant. The first thing you do when you wake up, drink a big glass of milk. Wait for a few hours (don’t eat anything else) and see if you start farting or have a bad stomach ache. If you do… CONGRATS! You’re part of the 70% of people in the world that is lactose intolerant. Makes me wonder why do they even sell milk in Singapore, or anywhere else. They should definitely start selling lactose-free milk (they had those in Australia).
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Then the guy moves on to the “love” stage. That’s when the guy is really concerned about the girl and makes sure that she gets the best and is really happy. Now since no guy would ever say that he’s the best for the girl, he’d move into this cyclic thing when he starts thinking that there will be someone else better for her. Eventually, the girl doesn’t get attached if everyone who likes/loves her start thinking the same way.
Firstly, if a guy starts feeling that he’s not good enough or suitable for his partner, he’s most probably having a repressed feeling of being bullied by girls in the playground when he was a wee-tot. Or, he truly feels inadequate and inferior to his partner, almost to a point of feeling that the girl would be happier with someone else. If you are reading this and you have such feelings towards your partner, whether you’re a girl or a guy, you should definitely talk to someone about it. There might be an underlying psychological problem with you that might affect your relationship with other people as well. I’m serious.
By the way, if your partner tells you that he or she is not good enough for you and wants to break it off with you… don’t bother asking for a reason. It’s either that he/she has an inferiority complex, as aforementioned, or it’s just an excuse to break up with you. It normally goes like this
“Maybe we should take a break off the relationship…”
“No, No!! It’s not you!! The problem is with me… really”
“I don’t think I can explain it… you know… You’re really a very wonderful person and anyone would be happy with you… the problem is really with me….”
Rightttttttttt.
Don’t even bother trying to figure out the reason why he has this mysterious problem. That’s the beauty of Love (or rather, human nature), it can be very volatile. If you are happily in love with someone, you shouldn’t have to feel inferior or doubt the relationship because it’s not “equal” in the eyes of society. I don’t think that that thought should ever surface if you are happily together with someone you love. If you really start casting doubt on yourself, your partner or the relationship, then may be you should take a step back and reevaluate your relationship. You might be unhappy with the relationship in some way but can’t figure out what the problem is, so you might attribute that feeling to a problem with yourself and say things like “I’m not good enough for you”, after all it would just be mean to blame it on the other party.
Don’t be a coward, find out what is truly the problem with the relationship to make you doubt it.
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